I had a fantastic thing happen to me this week. I was confronted by a sweet voice asking me two questions:
1. Why would you need all of those vases?
2. Is there a reason why you haven't changed your bright emerald green carpet from the early 90s - all 2500 square feet of it?
The answer to the above questions was, "I don't know."
It's not because I am a collector of vases and its not because I've enjoyed living on turf but when life continues to move forward sometimes you just put things in cupboards or you stop looking down.
So, first for the vases...
I believe there are three types of people:
Collectors
Hoarders
Minimalists
I have chosen today to be a minimalist. I am cleaning out. After 15 years, I've saved (for whatever reason) roughly 25 vases; most are from flowers I've received over the years and some are antiques.
When my grandma died in 2008, I was the depository for most of her items. My mom thought since I had most of the room in my home, I should take grandma's vases, dishes, vintage clothes and some handbags. Mind you - I don't mind the sentimental value of those items however how many vases should I keep and for who? Please notice, I'm not doing anything with clothes or handbags :)
It's a bit scary to open a cupboard and find all of them there - I flash back to a scene from someones car with mounds of paper, glasses and recycled items.
Could I be a glass recylcler? - BTW, 'recycler' is a made up word - urban dictionary would be so proud - or could I be like a person who uses their car as a storage unit?
That is a nightmare.
Recently, I've had conversations with others about their organizational skills at home. Some have pathways they walk around, others don't want to get rid of anything in fear they may need it and then there are those that have a case of OCD and are scared of dust and particles living on anything. I get it...everyone is different but what is the best way for me? I want to be efficient. I want to be cost sensitive and what I am doing right now is rationalizing my hoarding like tendencies so Barb, get rid of the vases and have a garage sale. That is what I am going to do...I am going to encourage (real word is enable) others to hoard. Please, come buy my junk and add to your disease of collection.
Question 1 - SOLVED
Now, question 2. That emerald green carpet. When my X and I bought our house in 2000, I had vision. Yes, I saw the deep green, swap-like carpet but I told myself, I'll lay new carpet.
HA
Now, 12 years later, the green carpet still exists. Talk about dust collection.
The cats are doing their part to remove it. Frankie and Cooper love to scratch on the staircase - believe it or not it's quite good carpet and has held its durability and COLOR well.
But, as my little sweet voice said, "Barb, it's time to do something about the carpet."
OK!
Yesterday, I confirmed an appointment to have the luxurious emerald green carpet removed and replaced with a more neutral oatmeal color. Some may say, "how boring."
Well, I've tried living with wild...for 12 years now so I think boring, neutral oatmeal carpet will be a refreshing change and will get me on the path of moving on.
Bye bye emerald green - a blast from my past and hello oatmeal - I am sure you will be much better for me and healthier too.
Such a great blog post!!
ReplyDeleteMy lovely wife and I are (thankfully) both neat freaks. Now, when we had 6 kids living under our roof, we didn't have the luxury of keeping everything clean and tidy. But now that I am a stay-at-home dad with only two kids still at home, it's much easier.
Our basic rule of thumb is this: if you haven't used it in the last two years and doubt you'll use it within the next year, get rid of it. It seems to work for us.
Love and blessings,
Christopher